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1. First of all, do we really need to escalate into romance? All this does is create unrealistic expectations of the other person, in an artificial environment that "allows" actions that would otherwise be inexcusable. Intimacy is not about how close you can get to the other person's face, it's about trust. Not understanding this only leads to someone getting hurt. Can you really make the commitment to be with this person for the rest of your life? Then don't make them believe you can! If you're watching this video,  then you obviously don't know the person well enough to begin with.



2. You have to like what she likes? HELL NO. If you happen to like the same things then great, but you shouldn't go out of your way to impress her like that. A girl should appreciate you for who you are, not because you're a carbon copy of her. Women are not things to be played with, we have feelings, we are human beings.  Also, this guy makes the assumption that all girls are Twilight Fans,  sure I'm a Twilight fan! Twilight Sparkle that is. =P

3. Someone who listens to only flattery is an airhead. A true artist welcomes and encourages critique, so instead of making up things to make yourself look like a nice guy, give her some well thought-out advice. She'll appreciate it a whole lot more.



4. Yes, he goes on to say that beauty is more than skin deep, but really? He doesn't mean it, he's only saying that to get bonus points.  Again with the flattery, if you want to tell her she is pretty then mean it! Don't just bandy about pick up lines about her eyes and makeup.A heartfelt compliment can mean the world to a girl. If you're genuinely interested in the point that she made then ask her about it, don't just do so to get on her good side.

5. Once again, getting to know her family is a good idea once you know her well enough, it shouldn't be something to win you bonus points.



6.  You know the saying "Chivalry is dead?" well it's true. And it's because of people like this guy. You don't really have a servant's heart  if you're doing it for your own benefit. I don't want you carrying my books if you're only doing it to hit on me. Chivalry is pure and honest. "Love thy neighbour as thyself."

7.  Myspace pics? Really? *facepalm* Nobody likes those. Period.8. If you have to worry about looking obsessive, maybe you should consider the fact that you are.


The Merits:

1. "Keep your hands to yourself." FINALLY A SINGLE KERNEL OF WISDOM!  Even though he explains it in a pretty dorky way, he's got this part right.

2. "Make her feel safe."  BIG ONE. A girl shouldn't have to worry about being alone in a room with you, or fret that you'll turn around and blab about her to your friends.

3. "Be her best friend." SPOT. ON. If only everyone could figure that out, I think there would be a lot less heartbreak in the world. Only thing, you shouldn't try to be her best friend only so that you can start dating. If that's your intention, you should step back and take a breather, reevaluate why you want to get to know her. Then you can start again when your intentions are pure.

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Rebekah Jennings
Artist | Hobbyist | Varied
United States
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Current Residence: The blasted heat of Arizona
Favourite genre of music: Just about anything except rap or Justin Bieber. =P
Favourite photographer: Annie Leonard :)
Favourite style of art: Again, just about anything except Yaoi or Yuri. >< I enjoy some realism, and abstract styles. Splatterpaint is not art.
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ChristinaMandy Featured By Owner Feb 21, 2014  Student Traditional Artist
Thank you so much for the :+devwatch:! :icondragonspin1::icondragonspin2:
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yko-54 Featured By Owner Sep 8, 2013



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xthumbtakx Featured By Owner Aug 8, 2013
hi Rebekah! thank you so much for :+fav:ing my art!! :hug: :dalove: hope you'll check out the rest of my gallery! :D


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Sovriin Featured By Owner Aug 7, 2013  Student Artisan Crafter
Thanks for the fav! :iconblushplz:
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JACAC Featured By Owner Jun 12, 2013
h e l l o . Rebekah:wave:
t h a n k . y o u . f o r . t h e . k i n d . :+fav: . =)

i . h o p e . m y . o t h e r . p h o t o s . a r e . a l s o . i n t e r e s t I n g
i f . y o u . g e t . t h e . c h a n c e . i . w o u l d . l o v e . t o . r e a d . a l s o . y o u r . c o m m e n t s

s m i l e . s p r i n g . i s . h e r e =)=)
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tuminka Featured By Owner Jan 9, 2013
Thank you for the fav, Rebekah:hug:

please feel free to visit my page [link]
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TheLanternGirl Featured By Owner Jan 5, 2013  Hobbyist Artisan Crafter
Thanks for the +watch! :la:
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FH-creation Featured By Owner Jan 1, 2013  Student Interface Designer
Thank you to the fav sorry to late
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scarlet1800 Featured By Owner Nov 30, 2012
thanks for dropping by my gallery and the fave!
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Tatter-Hood Featured By Owner Nov 12, 2012
Thanks for the fav! :squee:
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